if your toddler’s sleep has made you feel overwhelmed, this guide is for you…
Perfect toddler sleep doesn’t exist, but we can get pretty darn close with the right tools + lots of confidence in our little humans!
The toddler phase can be totally frustrating and confusing because suddenly, our babies have turned into little people with big emotions and LOTS of opinions! It’s easy to feel overwhelmed when your toddler decides they're not interested in this whole "sleeping alone all night" thing.
Whether you’re...
a first-time toddler parent who is tired and frustrated AF looking for some guidance...
a parent who had an amazing sleeper that’s all of a sudden changing things up
a parent with a toddler who generally sleeps well, but has a habit to break (goodbye paci)
a seasoned parent with awesome older sibling sleepers who’s now like “what is happening?!”
any parent who wants their toddler to become a healthy, independent sleeper
This all-in guide walks you step-by-step through how to get your child to sleep independently, broken into detailed portions that answer ALL your toddler sleep questions, and then some!
Just remember: you’re not alone and help is available! Healthy sleep creates well-adjusted, well-developed, happy kids, and my 18 Months - 3 Years old toddler sleep guide takes the guesswork out so you can feel confident in tackling the toddler sleep hurdle, no matter where you are in the process.
This guide is the ultimate solution if you want your toddler to:
Get in their bed or crib, fall asleep without help, and stay there for the night.
Sleep 10-12 hours through the night in their own sleep space.
Consistently take 1-2 hour naps or have a "quiet hour."
Be able to be put to bed by any trusted adult, not JUST you (and without a battle).
Feel well-rested, enjoy their sleep, and avoid the cycle of overtiredness
Have consistent sleep you can count on, so you can have an evening to yourself.
Learn these incredible skills without losing your cool or getting overwhelmed.
you could be sleeping well in a few nights…
WHEN USING MY 8 easy-to-digest sections with SPECIFIC STEPS & REALISTIC ADVICE
Each section contains exact step-by-step, practical education and instruction, simple visuals you can screenshot to save on your phone, and a key takeaways roundup at the end of each section to remind you of the most important points! Dive into a sneak peek of everything I cover in my ‘Rocking Toddler Sleep Together’ guide:
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How your toddler’s development relates to sleep
How much sleep does your toddler actually need?
The toddler wake window
Sleep stages
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All about sleep dependencies
Toddler sleep cues & how they’re different than babies
Overtired toddlers
Sleep hygiene
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Toddler brains and development
Praise, rewards, and the magic of purposeful time
Toddler emotions & new situations
Separation anxiety
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Learning to fall asleep independently
Goal #1: Self-settling
Goal #2: The toddler bedtime routine (plus consistency vs flexibility and giving them control)
Goal #3: Into bed wide awake
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1-2 Days before you begin
Preparing their body & sleep space
Notes on room sharing
Crib & room safety guidelines
YOUR confidence & boundaries
Your sleep training superpower & comfort script
Recommended products for success
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My recommended toddler bedtime routine
Bedtime stalling
The sleep training plans
Plan #1: Support with presence (crib or bed)
Plan #2: Leave & return (in a crib)
Plan #3: Leave & respond (in a bed)
Weaning middle-of-the-night feeds
How to handle middle-of-the-night wakings
Possible sleep regressions
Plans at a glance
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The "12-hour schedule," and why?
Early morning rising & how to solve
The nap training process for each sleep plan
Lengthening short naps
How to handle nap strikes
When and how to drop the last nap
Implementing a toddler quiet hour
Example daily schedule for nap time & quiet hour
Nap time & quiet hour routines
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Dive into OVER 25 lessons for troubleshooting the most common sleep struggles between 18 months and 3 years old! Some of the topics include:
False starts & split nights
Night lights & fears
Sleep at daycare
Climbing out of the crib
‘Ok to wake’ lights
Developmental milestones
++ SO much more!
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Attachment science
Secure attachment style
All about crying
Crying & sleep training
Let’s talk success, baby!
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Realistic advice and scripts to go from frustrating 2-hr bedtime battles and stalling to a simple bedtime routine they actually look forward to…
An exact step-by-step process that allows toddlers to learn to fall asleep without help, and get back to sleep in the night without help…
Tools and scripts that allow you to hold firm boundaries and get results, while staying calm and compassionate…
Predictable, full nights of sleep without their toddler leaving their room or crying out from the crib…
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Easy-to-digest info that's practical, removes the guesswork, and can be used immediately to start seeing progress tonight.
great sleep & MORE
when your toddler sleep well, everything changes…
What would you do with your evening if your toddler easily went into their bed awake, stayed in bed all night, and slept the entire night?
How would you feel if you were able to wake up completely refreshed after sleeping the whole night, uninterrupted?
Could you imagine if another trusted caregiver could easily put your little one down while you got a break to do…whatever you wanted?
How would you spend the extra time in your day if your little one consistently stayed down for 1-2 hours for each nap?
Helping your child learn to sleep independently helps them achieve essential restorative rest AND gives you more time to do what makes you feel like you. Join our parent revolution where we don’t feel guilty for making hard changes to sleep — we reframe our thoughts to understand we’re doing something that benefits the health and wellness of our children, ourselves, and our whole family! YOU and your little one deserve to rest well and feel good.
Frequently Asked Questions
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No, this is not a video-based guide.
This guide is visual-based PDF with text and imagery to guide you through your journey at your own pace. You can easily search the PDF for keywords, and screenshot important pages for easy reference.
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This guide includes information, guidance, and communication scripts that are developmentally appropriate and comprehensible for children in the toddler phase. This includes children ranging in age between 18 months and 3 years, though, the information could be applicable to older, school-aged children with some customizations to the communication style throughout the sleep learning process.
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Sleep training is a behavioral intervention technique
What does this mean? Most sleep issues for toddlers are behavioral or learned, meaning that a habit or sleep association was created at some point that the child feels they need in order to sleep (common examples here are feeding to sleep, rocking to sleep, using a pacifier to fall asleep, needing a parent to lie with them to fall asleep, etc.). There are various methods for sleep training, but they all result in the behavior being changed by giving the child the opportunity and time to learn to fall asleep with their own techniques, rather than being helped to sleep each time by the caregiver.
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Yes. This guide offers three responsive sleep training techniques that walk you step-by-step through how to handle bedtime, night wakings, naps, mornings, and the overall sleep schedule to help your child sleep 9-12 hours overnight and take predictable naps, or transition to a toddler ‘quiet hour.’ This guide can be used with toddlers who are still in a crib or in a bed. There is an option to stay in the room during the sleep training, or do a leave-and-check method.
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12 Nights or Less.
This guide includes a 12-day program that will have your child sleeping through the night in 12 days, when followed exactly and with 100% consistency. Parents who follow the plan exactly to a T typically see vast improvements in sleep within just 2-3 nights, though toddlers learn at different speeds and therefore, it can also take up to the full 12 days.
To learn more about complete consistency during sleep training for the most success, visit this blog post: http://bit.ly/3ZYoqMb
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Probably. Crying is normal for toddlers going through a big change (that they didn’t agree to).
My sleep training methods are not "cry it out." Though, crying can often occur during this process as your child is learning something new and different. "Cry it out" refers to the Extinction Method, where a child is left to cry in their room alone until morning.
My guide offers three sleep training methods, and all are responsive and walk you through options for comforting and responding to your child. Two of the options are a "leave and check" method (similar to the Ferber Method, but not exact), and the other method allows you to stay in the room with your child the entire time.
Remember, crying is not inherently bad, crying itself will not harm your child, and sleep training will not harm your attachment with your child. To learn more about crying, attachment theory, and sleep training, you can visit my blog.
The best way to ensure tears are minimal is to talk through the change with your child, wait until you’re truly ready to hold necessary boundaries so you don’t keep ‘changing the rules,’ follow a concrete plan (this is not something where “winging it” works well, and remain calm throughout the process.
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Due to the nature of this guide being a PDF, I do not offer refunds.
If you need help clarifying information for more success or have extenuating circumstances, please email hello@sleepfullbaby.com for answers on a case-by-case basis.
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